As to hosting a wedding get-together in the Islamic way, one may as well avoid the things which are illegal in sharee'ah however which numerous individuals don't give careful consideration to throughout festivals, for example the accompanying:
As to the lady: heading off to a male, non-mahram hair specialist to have her hair done; or embellishing herself in ways that are haraam, for example diminishing the eyebrows by culling them, or wearing tattoos, or wearing hair growths, or different sorts of haraam things, on the grounds that the Prophet (peace and commendments of Allaah be upon him) reviled the person who culls eyebrows and the person who has that done, the person who includes hair developments and the person who asks to have that done; mimicking the kuffaar in their dress, on the grounds that normally the wedding dress indicates a number of the lady's charms and her physique, in such a path, to the point that the dress is exceptionally uncovering -we look for asylum with Allaah – and additionally an extraordinary arrangement of cash is squandered on the dress.
Around the haraam activities that have to do with the man are: shaving his whiskers for the wedding night, which is finished because this makes him look more good looking, yet this is something which is haraam as per sharee'ah; giving one a chance to attire hang underneath the lower leg (isbaal).
There takes after a record of haraam things which both men and ladies might as well stay away from in the wedding gathering:
1-Mixing of men with ladies, and things that are included in that, for example welcome and shaking hands with each one in turn, and men and ladies moving together, in light of the fact that the greater part of that is haraam and is an extremely genuine matter.
2-Taking pictures, if men do that around themselves or ladies do that around themselves.
3-Drinking liquor or consuming pork.
4-Letting the spouse come into where the ladies are keeping in mind the end goal to take his wife.
5-Women wearing uncovering, tight or short garments around themselves, in light of the fact that this is haraam – so what about wearing such things before men?
6-People may as well abstain from using lavishly or set to extremes in flaunting in wedding gatherings, in light of the fact that may wipe out the favoring.
7-The spouse and wife trading rings and in this manner impersonating the kuffaar, imagining that this will build the spouse's love for his wife and vice versa.
At last, both accomplices might as well realize that the more the teachings of Islam are followed in the wedding gathering, the more favored their marriage will be, the more fondness and congruity there will be between them, and the less issues they will experience in their wedded life.
For if the wedded life is built from the beginning in light of haraam things which go against the summons of Allaah, by what means would they be able to anticipate that the marriage will be efficacious after that?
There have been numerous relational unions in which there were things that went against the orders of Allaah, and they didn't keep going.
Fear Allaah as to this gathering and keep it free of things that are taboo in Islam
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